The feminine heart blooms open when we feel our partner choosing us in both the beauty and the vulgarity of this life. When they turn towards us in the heights of joy and in the depths of sorrow, saying yes, again and again, as we change over time, as we meet life’s edges and grow beyond our former selves. That kind of courageous choosing creates a foundation of trust where both people can soften, open and bring their full selves forward. This is the devotional claim of love —the every day “I’ve