Here they are 1. She challenges his lack of decisiveness What she says: “Why can’t you just make a decision?” “You always leave everything up to me.” What the wounded inner boy hears: “I’m not good enough. She doesn’t trust me.” What she’s really saying: “I want to trust your leadership. Show me your direction and conviction.” 2. She reflects when he’s not connected to his heart What she says: “I don’t feel like you’re actually here.” “Do you even care how I feel?” What the wounded inner boy hea